Tradition Five
"Each group has but one primary purpose - to carry it's message to the
alcoholic who still suffers."
"Shoemaker, stick to thy last!" ... better do one thing supremely well
than many badly. That is the central theme of this Tradition. Around it
our Society gathers in unity. The very life of our Fellowship requires
the preservation of this principle.
Alcoholics Anonymous can be likened to a group of physicians who might
find a cure for cancer, and upon whose concerted work would depend the
answer for sufferers of this disease. True, each physician in such a
group might have his own specialty. Every doctor concerned would at
times wish he could devote himself to his chosen field rather than work
only with the group. But once these men had hit upon c cure, once it
became apparent that only by their united effort could this be
accomplished, then all of them would feel bound to devote themselves
solely to the relief of cancer. In the radiance of such a miraculous
discovery, any doctor would set his other ambitions aside, at whatever
personal cost.
Just as firmly bound by obligation are the members of Alcoholics
Anonymous, who have demonstrated that they can help problem drinkers as
others seldom can. The unique ability of each A.A. to identify himself
with, and bring recovery to, the newcomer in no way depends upon his
learning, eloquence, or on any special individual skills. the only
thing that matters is that he is an alcoholic who has found a key to
sobriety. These legacies of suffering and of recovery are easily passed
among alcoholics, one to the other. This is our gift from god, and its
bestowal upon others like us is the one aim that today animates A.A.'s
all around the globe.
There is another reason for this singleness of purpose. It is the great
paradox of A.A. that we know we can seldom keep the precious gift of
sobriety unless we give it away. If a group of doctors possessed a
cancer cure, they might be conscience-stricken if they failed their
mission through self-seeking. Yet such a failure wouldn't jeopardize
their personal survival. for us, if we neglect those who are still
sick, there is unremitting danger to our own lives and sanity. Under
these compulsions of self-preservation, duty, and love, it is not
strange that our Society has concluded that it has but one high mission
- to carry the A.A. message to those who don't know there is a way out.
Highlighting the wisdom of A.A.'s single purpose, a member tells this
story:
"Restless one day, I felt I'd better do some Twelfth Step work. Maybe I
should take out some insurance against a slip. But first I'd have to
find a drunk to work on.
"So I hopped the subway to Towns Hospital, where I asked Dr. Silkworth
if he had a prospect. `Nothing too promising,' the little doc said.
`There's just one chap on the third floor who might be a possibility.
But he's an awfully tough Irishman. I never saw a man so obstinate. He
shouts that if his partner would treat him better, and his wife would
leave him alone, he'd soon solve his alcohol problem. He's had a bad
case of D.T.'s, he's pretty foggy, and he's very suspicious of
everybody. Doesn't sound too good, does it? But working with him may do
something for you, so why don't you have a go at it?'
"I was soon sitting beside a big hulk of a man. Decidedly unfriendly,
he stared at me out of eyes which were slits in his red and swollen
face. I had to agree with the doctor - he certainly didn't look god.
But I told him my own story. I explained what a wonderful Fellowship we
had, how well we understood each other. I bore down hard on the
hopelessness of the drunk's dilemma. I insisted that few drunks could
ever get well on their own steam, but that in our groups we could do
together what we could not do separately. He interrupted to scoff at
this and asserted he'd fix his wife, his partner, and his alcoholism by
himself. Sarcastically he asked, `How much does your scheme cost?'
"I was thankful I could tell him, `Nothing at all.'
"His next question: `What are you getting out of it?' "Of course, my
answer was `My own sobriety and a mighty happy life.'
"Still dubious, he demanded, `Do you really mean the only reason you
are here is to try and help me and to help yourself?'
"`Yes,' I said. `That's absolutely all there is to it. There's no
angle.'
"Then, hesitantly, I ventured to talk about the spiritual side of our
program. What a freeze that drunk gave me! I'd no sooner got the word
`spiritual' out of my mouth than he pounced. `Oh!' he said. `Now I get
it! You're proselytizing for some damn religious sect or other. Where
do you get that "no angle" stuff? I belong to a great church that means
everything to me. You've got a nerve to come in here talking religion!"
"Thank heaven I came up with the right answer for that one. It was
based foursquare on the single purpose of A.A. `You have faith,' I
said. `Perhaps far deeper faith than mine. No doubt you're better
taught in religious matters than I. So I can't tell you anything about
religion. I don't even want to try. I'll bet, too, that you could give
me a letter-perfect definition of humility. But from what you've told
me about yourself and your problems and how you propose to lock them, I
think I know what's wrong.'
"`Okay,' he said. `Give me the business.'
"`Well,' I said, `I think you're just a conceited Irishman who thinks
he can run the whole show.'
"This really rocked him. But as he calmed down, he began to listen
while I tried to show him that humility was the main key to sobriety.
Finally, he saw that I wasn't attempting to change his religious views,
that I wanted him to find the grace in his own religion that would aid
his recovery. From there on we got along fine.
"Now," concludes the old timer, "suppose I'd been obliged to talk to
this man on religious grounds? Suppose my answer had to be that A.A.
needed a lot of money; that A.A. went in for education, hospital, and
rehabilitation? Suppose I'd suggested that I'd take a hand in his
domestic and business affairs? Where would we have wound up? No place,
of course."
Years later, this tough Irish customer liked to say, "my sponsor sold
me one idea, and that was sobriety. At the time, I couldn't have bought
anything else."
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